Originally Posted By: Starsky309
I try to urge people to define what "works" NOT as "he/she's being 'nice'," but rather "they are making a move back toward the marriage."


Starsky


That is a VERY good point Starsky.

Question: Where do "baby steps" fall in to this? What would a "baby step" towards the marriage look like?

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