If Rys asks you not to post to her after that, please don't. I hate to see you moderated. : )
Rys, Bond has made some very valid points. I hope rather than get offended at him you really take the time to see he is trying to get you to see somethings you don't seem willing to see.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
