I'm planning on trying the NC with my W. As i read through other peoples stories and sitches i feel like that is something that i should do. I've been following denver's sitch particularly close and i can relate to it it very much.

Funny story, I took my girls to go see Kung Fu Panda 3 when it came out and I can relate to Po saying that he felt as though he lost his center. I was talking to my stepdaughter about mommy and I seperating and I told her that I was like Po in that i've lost my center and need to find myself for things to work with mommy and I. Doesn't really have much to do with this subject but more of me doing self observation. Basically i'm just rambling, it sort helps me when i start feeling helpless.