WAW for 6+ years -- Need Help

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My w, s, and I went to Palm Springs this Father's Day weekend. IT was nice and we had a great time. Now, it's back here and back to the grindstone. I don't mind working; it's really the fact that I'm back to the same old routine of still trying to save my marriage instead of enjoying it. I just keep praying and doing my best to DB while trying to understand all that continues. I got a funny card for Father's Day from the w. Yes, I was expecting more even though I don't know why. We did enjoy each other's company while in Palm Springs, but now... We'll just have to keep on keeping on. I know God's plans and timing are not our own at times, but it doesn't make this sitch any easier. She hasn't said anything about OM's lawyer appointment. He told her on 1 June that he was going to see a lawyer about his finances and how much he would lose if he left his wife. Granted its only been two weeks, but .... I'm thinking she ate with him today, but I don't know and I really need to stop worrying about anything she does period!! It's just at times, I can't help it. Still have some growing up to do in the DBing life! Hope everyone had a nice weekend. This week will be a long one. God is Great!