mykarma This book has been suggested here before in a few places, I have just started to read it myself. Powerful stuff. You may find it helpful as well. It really explains well why we're holding on so tightly.
"The Journey from Abandonment to Healing" by Susan Anderson.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.