Giving it time is the advice I keep seeing, and it is, logically, the correct choice (Thank you, Mr. Spock).
But then I think, "I'm not getting any younger..."
And...how do I feel about spending the rest of my marriage life with a woman who has dragged me through the mud the way she has?
I don't know how you've gone as long as you have with the crap you've endured, AC, but I admire your stones.
We each have our own personal breaking point Telemark. Only you can decide when you have reached your's. I will say that, from what I know, you haven't given your sitch much time. Time and patience are the keys to this (not that I'm always good with it though!).
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce