Since you're booking the trip, is it possible to have some separate excursions while you're there?
I can see how it would be pretty difficult to maintain the fine-balance you're walking.
Then she wouldn't feel smothered, and you wouldn't be second-guessing every thing you say. That would be pretty tiring, and maybe impossible.
I agree with the "no pressure" comments. Don't think of a stop sign!
I don't know about the separate excursions. If I suggest it, I risk my W perceiving it as me not wanting to spend the time with she and SS. This was a HUGE deal when we were together and one of the biggest reasons that she left me.
It is very difficult walking this tight rope. Very, very difficult.
Denver
Then go on lots of crazy endorphin-releasing rides!
You will be a master tight-rope walker soon.
I wonder if this quote thingy I'm attempting is going to work...
