It seems to me like you're between a rock and a hard place. I'm trying to remember how the potential trip even happened. I think you said in the previous thread that it was planned during your previous reconciliation? If you do book it, can you use the opportunity to make her feel understood?
I had brought it up as a possibility in our previous reconciliation.. or whatever you want to call it. It got dropped for more than a month. The W brought it up out of the blue a week ago.
I am going to book it... go on the trip... try to make her feel understood as you suggest... and try to make it a great trip for all of us.
Thanks Toon!
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GREAT idea.
Have FUN.
Love isn't always fun, but fun very often leads to love. Don't use it as 'hash it out' time. Use it to your advantage.
