I think you should neither make this about money, nor tell her that you're afraid of being "hurt." What if you just said "I'd really like to go, too, but I'm just not sure this is such a great idea right now, considering where we are with everything" or something like that?
Not to sound cruel or anything, but I really don't think your wife cares much about you being "hurt" in her current mindset (she's still displaying a lot of anger and entitlement). That doesn't make it RIGHT, but that's how she feels right now, and you have to deal with that. Starsky
I'm fairly confident that you are right Starsky. She doesn't care a whole lot about my hurt right now. She is still focused very much on her own anger, hurt and yes, entitlement. I'm doing the best that I can to deal with it and remembering that there will be a time and a place for us to deal with my hurt.
You may also be right about me looking needy yesterday. Maybe I shouldn't have brought it up, but more than anything, I needed to confirm that my boundary was not being crossed before I booked this trip. W told me that it wasn't, I have to trust her, so I'm going forward with the trip.
I'm going to do my very best to make the most of the time that we have together.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
