Just trying to clarify: is your boundary with your wife that you cannot remain in the marriage if she is "with" OM, or if she is in CONTACT with him?
My deep concern here is that the former is an awfully squishy one to define, and a slippery slope, whereas "no contact means no contact." Starsky
My boundary is that OM is not to be in her life. I understand that they will have incidental contact with work on rare occasions, but I've told W that I am walking if she is talking to him or seeing him otherwise.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
