Originally Posted By: Talkartoon
Since you're booking the trip, is it possible to have some separate excursions while you're there?

I can see how it would be pretty difficult to maintain the fine-balance you're walking.

Then she wouldn't feel smothered, and you wouldn't be second-guessing every thing you say. That would be pretty tiring, and maybe impossible.

I agree with the "no pressure" comments. Don't think of a stop sign! wink


I don't know about the separate excursions. If I suggest it, I risk my W perceiving it as me not wanting to spend the time with she and SS. This was a HUGE deal when we were together and one of the biggest reasons that she left me.

It is very difficult walking this tight rope. Very, very difficult.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce