I can see how much you want this to work out and how hard you're trying to walk a very fine line with your wife,, staying connected while giving her space. I have some idea how hard this can be.
When I say "Don't think of a stop sign." What do you think of? Almost everyone thinks of the sign. When you repeatedly tell your wife you don't want to pressure her, I don't imagine that's having the reassuring effect you think it is. Just food for thought.
You know, you might be right. I hadn't thought of this Count, but it is a very good point.
thanks Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce