Originally Posted By: Edmond Dantes
Denver,

I can see how much you want this to work out and how hard you're trying to walk a very fine line with your wife,, staying connected while giving her space. I have some idea how hard this can be.

When I say "Don't think of a stop sign." What do you think of? Almost everyone thinks of the sign. When you repeatedly tell your wife you don't want to pressure her, I don't imagine that's having the reassuring effect you think it is. Just food for thought.


You know, you might be right. I hadn't thought of this Count, but it is a very good point.

thanks
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce