So I keep reading on other websites that I need to be contacting her friends and family about the affair. That I should be making it public to everyone. is this actually advisable? I know the book says for the LRT do not get help but would letting them know about it actually be asking for help? I don't want to take this approach if it's going to make things a lot worse
I truly love my wife but I have to wonder if this is really worth saving when she is cheating on me regardless of the factor that we no longer live together she is still my wife and I do consider it an affair.
