I understand, but she did not care about his games on friday and saturday and made no attempt to find out about those games. S12 and D14 both have phones and she always, always calls them or text them to find out what time games are. I asked both of them Sunday morning if Mom know what time the games were and they said they have not heard from her. Also when d14 talked to her sat night, d14 told her that game was at 9:30 on sunday morning. Please understand that she feels an extreme amount of guilt and always has when she spend the day or night out drinking.