Lorie, We don't even have a number for H, in case of an emergency. Our D14 gets angry but has been sad now for the past couple of days with it being Father's Day and so has my S20.
H's whole entire family has blocked her on FB so she can't even talk to them, it's just so plain out evil of all of them to do this, and I never expected it from the one BIL. H's parents were D'd now for over 36 years and remarried to other people so H has two sets of parents really. And that side (FIL), doesn't bother with the kids or me either and we were very close.
What I don't get is why all of them are taking it out on the kids, they didn't do anything. But his sons from a ex-girlfriend from high school are loved and treated the same as they always were and it's like me and our kids are garbage.
I know they MLC'ers, don't see their children often and so on, but my H is seeing his other ones all of the time, and doesn't miss anything that is big going on in their lives. Sometimes I wonder if this is a MLC or H has just lost it totally, and is ending up to be like his M's side, totally evil. H didn't speak to them for over 12 years and once we separated it wasn't long before he made up with them. How do you act like a parent to certain kids and not the others that you raised? How does a whole, well 2 families wipe their hands of the kids and act like they don't exist.
The kids sent flowers to MIL H's step-mother, for Mother's Day and never even a thank you from her, no phone calls nothing. This is the confusing part, doesn't the family of the MLC'er see something is not right at all with the person?? I do know H's mother's side is loving every minute because they were always trying to ruin someone's life, I saw it with my own eyes many years ago.
Does anyone have any answers about the children here?
