Come to find out from some friends and family that made numerous phone calls to me yesterday that she spent the day at the river with some less quality people that she doesnt really know. She spent the day drinking with them. She posted over 50 pictures to facebook showing her drinking and pics she took of men with their rear ends showing. The people that called me were very upset as they have kids and w if facebook friends with them and their kids. Without a doubt she posted the pics to facebook just to get me to respond. I did not respond to them and did not call her about it. If my kids happen to see pics of their mom doing the things she was doing, then they will have to make their own judgement call, and if they ask me, I will let them know that is what mom wants in her life right now, and it does not stop us from being a family.
My D14 was a bit upset on saturday as she did not hear from her mom until mid day. She called her and d14 asked what she was doing and she said she was hanging out with a friend, a girlfriend that w really never liked but it makes sense as this girl is a party type. D14 told me that she didnt understand why w would go do that instead of spending time with her and her brothers today. I explained to her that mom has her issues right now, which are the same reason why she walked out the day she did. It does not change how I feel and I will always be here for you. S12 did not make any comments on w missing both of his games, but i know it did.
Saturday afternoon was a tough day for me, as the thoughts of her being out drinking with friends and no doubt numerous men. D14 seemed to know I was having a rough day and made attempts to hug on me. I wasnt crying, but i know she could tell. I always tell her not to hide her emotions and to let them out, so I think if I cant show mine that how can i expect for her to do the same.
W finally called d14 back around 10 on saturday night to ask what time s12 game was on father's day. She replied and hung up the phone. I told d to make sure she expresses her feelings to her mom and that I could not do it for her. I told her it was very important to do so.
Sunday morning, Father day, I got a text from W.Happy Father's day and what time is s12 game today. I did not respond back, she then tried to call me a few minutes later and did not answer. I told kids that today was my day with them and did not want or expect any types of gifts. This was an issue because d14 told her mom by text earlier on sat that if she could find time to get away from her friends she would like her to take her to the store to get dad something for fathers day. W took 5 hours to respond to d14 and told her she would get dad something and not to be a smartass on the phone. It amazes me how w could say that to her knowing she was upset. back to sunday moringin she again tried to call 3 more times and i did not answer. The kids and i got in my truck to head to ball game and s8 wanted to play with my phone, while doing so she called again and s8 answered the phone. w asked him where dad was and he handed me the phone, I had to talk as I didnt want to show the kids my anger to her. She asked me why I wasnt answering the phone, i told her it was my dad with my kids and did not want to talk. So i hung up the phone. She texted me back a few later and asked what my problem was. I did not respond back. She then text asking me what size pants I now wore. I text her back with the reply " I have what I want for fathers day, please do not waste your time or money.

She then attempted 3 more times to call me and did not answer. She then called d14 and asked where dad was. d14 replied that dad is driving and does not want to talk. She began to yell at d14 and I grabbed the phone from her and asked w shat she wanted. She replied, what did I do to make you mad at me, and I replied "think about friday night when you missed s12 game, think about sat morning when you missed again. Think about d14 wanting you to take her shopping. Now please do not call me back I am spending my day with my kids. and again I hung up the phone. She text me the first time on sunday morning at 8:01, which makes me think that she had alarm set for 8. She without a doubt felt guilt as she always does after drinking and partying all day.
When she got to the ball game, she didnt make any comments or apologies to s12 about missing games. Sat in the stands by d14 and didnt have much to say to her either. after game, she came to me and asked if we were leaving ball field or staying and i said leaving. I think she wanted me to reply where we were going and I didnt do it. She wanted to know if I was taking kids to my brothers house. did not give in and drove away. She always looks sad and depressed when she comes to games.

Saturday her cousin called me and told me about friday night while they were out eating. W make comment to cousin that I was lost weight, taking shower every night, sleeping in bed, and getting out to bar room. W told her it only makes her mad, and if I could have done that while we were still together she would have not left me. I know this is bs as she left with OM, and all those things i was changing before she left. Told her she would never go back home and she didnt care what my changes were. Well I figured if it didnt matter to her then she wouldnt have called me friday night asking about it.