[quote=billly]she even joked about getting a new boy friend before the 4th of july. she went on about how our personalty's are too different and she needed someone who complemented her more. [/quote
Sounds to me like this relationship already exists, and she's either done something about it or WANTS to. I agree with Sandi.
Have you seen Sandi's list of DB do's and don'ts yet? I would start with those.