I try to reiterate to my W every time that we do have R talk that I am not trying to pressure her and that I am willing to give her as much time as she needs... albeit with the boundary that I have set.
I meant to mention in my update above that I reiterated my W today that I didn't mean to pressure her, that I am still willing to give her as much time as she needs... albeit with the boundary.
Denver,
Just trying to clarify: is your boundary with your wife that you cannot remain in the marriage if she is "with" OM, or if she is in CONTACT with him?
My deep concern here is that the former is an awfully squishy one to define, and a slippery slope, whereas "no contact means no contact."
