Thanks, db. Still taking things one day at a time. You're projecting things way into the future. And I am open to one day flip flopping things as you describe.
But now we both have more issues than we began with: what with the OM and all, so it's gonna take time, years may be. I am embarking on a phase of my life that I fully intend to enjoy. Not getting any younger you know.
Yesterday at mass I heard a still small voice, "Be a saint". I know what that means. God that's gonna be so hard! But if I fall off that horse, I'll just climb back on.
Someone once said: "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."