Denver, thanks for pointing that out. Herbs post snuck in there on the previous page, and I would have hated to miss it!
It was sweet. I'm so glad that H seems to be looking at our sitch from a different perspective now. I am finally feeling like my hurt is being acknowledged. His apology feels like it means something now too, where as before, they actually caused me pain.
This might take a while, with patience on both our parts, but I would rather have a slow road to recovery than a fast one to divorce!