I haven't asked W yet for the cell phone back as I don't want to make contact, although MF's say I should, but will ask W for it next Sunday and give her a week to sort it out.
A good socialising weekend, but paid for it in recovering LOL. Went out with H's of MF on Friday night, and other friends Sat night. Even got chatted up on Sat night by a young divorcée, but she had some serious issues of her own so stayed well clear, not in the frame of mind to go there yet!
MIL called on Sunday afternoon, which was the first time I have spoken to them since W moved out. MIL said they have wanted to call for a while, but wanted to stay out of things. MIL and FIL do not understand what W is doing, and even said that W doesn't call them as often now, W used to call MIL every day without fail. MIL thinks W is having a crisis and doesn't understand what is going on in W's head and said that W will not open up to anyone. I said I felt the same, but MIL, me and her friends could not help W and that she is on her own journey which only she can guide. I sounded happy and upbeat on the phone to MIL which she was glad to hear. I mentioned to MIL my concerns about kids, and asked her to keep an eye on things and not to mention this directly to W, which MIL said she wasn't even going to tell W she had called, plus it was up to her so I am welcome around any time, which was nice.
W text me on Sunday morning (first contact since W called last Sunday) to say she wanted to come round to pick up S12's jeans, and then again at 2pm to say to call the kids, but didn't pick up either as I switched my cell off at 4am after my night out and going for a curry. Stayed at friends house so didn't get home until 3pm. When W dropped the kids off I was in the shower. Next week I will start seeing her when she collects/drops kids off.
Kids came back Sunday evening, and again had only been eating junk (Cereals Sunday breakfast and hotdogs for lunch, which was it) they haven't been doing anything with W, just staying in their bedrooms. D14 said they are still having arguments, with W now shouting at her to get out of her sight and calling her a little fu***** Bit*h!!!! W also keeps shouting at them to "go to your Dads then" when in arguments. I have told both kids to not get into fights with W and to appreciate their mum is having a difficult time at the moment but only their Mum can figure things out. W is still trying to find answers at the bottom of wine glasses!
Got some things planned for us all this week (evenings) Monday - Shopping and Starbucks Tuesday - Bowling (with my brothers family) Wednesday - Relaxing Thursday - Home baking Friday - S12 sleepover, pizza and games
Saturday - Lunch and afternoon and my parents Sunday - Sunday roast at friend's pub
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
