Originally Posted By: Talkartoon

It seems to me like you're between a rock and a hard place. I'm trying to remember how the potential trip even happened. I think you said in the previous thread that it was planned during your previous reconciliation? If you do book it, can you use the opportunity to make her feel understood?


I had brought it up as a possibility in our previous reconciliation.. or whatever you want to call it. It got dropped for more than a month. The W brought it up out of the blue a week ago.

I am going to book it... go on the trip... try to make her feel understood as you suggest... and try to make it a great trip for all of us.

Thanks Toon!

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W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce