Beatrice, Glad you posted that above. I needed to hear it even though you were taling to punkin. I feel it is exactly what all these MLCers do as the LBS starts to get strong. They pout. They blame and they point the finger some more. Mine is doing just that towards me. I am not feeding into it anymore. I am just not talking to him at all instead. It is making him very mad, but it is giving me a chance to heal and gather my thoughts on what I want and deserve out of life and relationships from here on out. I cant believe the new ways I am feeling, it overwhelming to me and sad. But I know its for the best. Thanks again for that tid bit of explanation.
Punkin, hold tight. I know once you get your new house, you will have a great feeling wash over you. I moved out of our M house and bought my own condo the first time my H left. It made me feel strong and gave me self confidence. And almost immediatly after my H found out, he came running back. too bad back then I was still so he!!-bent on getting him to return, that I took him back with out a question of a doubt. Now I am not in those shoes anymore. SO SAD. But anyhow, YOU GO GIRL!!! TIPPER
