Well that explains why I feel a connection to your wife's side of things...
I really heard a lot of me in a text convo you had with your wife a few threads back, after the toilet incident.
I know. And that is why some of the best advice that I get is from people like you who understand my W's perspective. I think that it is too easy to brush it off and say that she needs to get over the hurt caused in the M... or that she needs to be understanding my pain and hurt. She's not there yet. And as you said on my thread, there will be plenty of time for that later.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce