Denver - I just read up on your sitch. I can't believe the difference between now and a short time ago. From the "toilet incident" to now...just wow. We so rarely see any good news around here, that it seems almost foreign. It must be so tough for you to not get excited and move too quickly. I am not sure if I ever actually had a chance, but a year ago today, I was only a few days away from going on vacation with STBX to celebrate her birthday. And now today, I am only a few days away from starting divorce conditions. I definitely tried to take too much too soon and scared STBX right into the waiting arms of her Boss. Please remember that every time you are about to move too quickly - not that you have so far. Just a word of caution.

Be proud. But be patient.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.