H would probably be happy enough to just work, save, retire, and feel that he had a good life. I would not. I think he's come to realize that he likes the end result of jumping off a few cliffs, but he doesn't enjoy the leap as much.
That is exactly my W and I too Toon. I am like your H and my W is like you. You know what though? I have worked to try to understand the importance of enjoying the leap as well. That's what life is all about.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
