I don't know if Church_31 showed up at the wrong time. She joined the church group at the same time I did and she's become a friend and really a prototype. I may never end up with her, but I think I want someone like her.
I remember the December fling. The Match girl was beautiful, outgoing and ... easy ... and it just didn't feel right. So I ended it after just two weeks.
What I meant by the wrong time is that these women tend to show up at times when we shouldn't be even thinking about it. Again, maybe because we're so wounded we're looking (not so much consciously) and being a bit more aggressive in approaching them and getting friendly...I dunno. I like the way you're looking at this though. Just don't fool yourself and then a month from now tell us "guess what..." Hey, but you're not me and I'm no expert on your life lol. Btw, to say Match girl was "easy" was an understatement!
