When I told W that I was leaving, W said, "well, I can't walk you to the door right now, I'm helping my mom." So I ended up staying. I think that W was saying that she didn't want me to leave right then.
You should have left. (Not saying this in an A-Hole kind of way)
Leave her wanting more, don't be TOO available. Don't worry too much about what she was thinking. You wanted to leave for whatever reason; you should have left, but you didn't. Do what you say your going to do. It was a test and you failed.(Not the end of the world way either)
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
I was a little irritated at the very end of the night bc W had mentioned OM's name in passing about something. I can't even remember what it was that she said. This was right before I dropped her off at her place.
I'd get irritated too if my W was POSSIBLY rubbing my nose in it. Why is his name coming up? Test? Maybe? I think you should let her know what you accept and what you don't. In a calm respectful non angry way. You issued your N.U.T., why is she mentioning OM to you. Maybe you should verify why this is happening. Your not an angel, but you don't have a "back up" OW either. You have the right to be irritated, but if she doesn't know why and you KNOW what you want...then it's a covert contract with yourself and/or broken boundary. It's also a test.
