Ok, so the W went with me to an old friends wedding tonight. Was a good night but she was tired and distant. But I played it off like I didnt notice. She was kind of cranky to be honest, I just played with my kids at the reception and talked to old friends. When food service was announced she did not want to wait in line so I took the kids and got them food and made her a plate as well as one for me. I brought it to her...told her that I knew she was hungry since we had been together all day and I remember it had been a while since we ate. She thanked me and became a little more friendly.
The part I am kinda struggling with is this....when we got home we were laying bed watching a movie. She looks over and ask if I told my friends what was going on between us? I responeded "no" because I hadnt didnt think it was any of there business. Anyway She was like "Oh, just curious if they knew what was going on". So I ask what is going on....she says I dont know, I havent made my mind up yet. I say well I have been working on not bothering you so much, I hope that helps you some. She says yes it does. Wasnt a horrible thing but still frustrating as he!l. I know I still have a long way to go on the DB trail but was feeling like I had been making progress....or at least more progress than I have actually made.