Dolphin,

So often we look for signs as to where they are in the crisis...

And too often, we think that if they are done with OP, that means the crisis is nearing the end and that they are coming back...

When that does not happen as quickly as we think it should, we get discouraged...

The truth is, they may come back or the may not, we just don't know...

I can tell you that watching the fallout of the OP R crumbling, isn't pretty...and they fight the sadness, again, trying to run from the pain...

Right now, the best thing that you can do, is sit back, remain detatched and see what happens...

Taking care of you in the meantime...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox