Fool me once, Shame on ME

[ninelives]

Not much to update except there have been a number of texts about oldest son.

His birthday is on monday and she wanted to know what I was doing for it. Im having a few of his friends over and asked him what he wanted on the menu and also asked if he wanted any activities.

He wants to keep it pretty low key. He doesnt want it in two place either. SO i invited my W for cake and Pizza if she wanted and she seemed very happy to accept. Not going to make a big production of it at all.

My w and I texted earlier in the day about oldest sons poor performance in school. She said that he blames her for everything including her robbing him of his later childhood.

I didnt respond to that. She mentioned if it was possible that he come over tonight to her place.

I replied, " Nothing is impossible" and she answered that with God I hope so, do you really think anything is possible?

I responded with a " huh?"

W: I just meant that i hope oldest son is ok and Im hoping for a miracle.

M: He doesnt need a miracle.

W: So, Tell me exactly what he NEEDs then huh?

I didnt respond to that text.

W: So do you have my old tires for the van and you know I work on father's day so you can have the kids for that day, do you want youngest overnight?

M: No it wont be necessary to have overnight.


Later I had a friend pop over for a swim with his daughter. His wife and my W are/ Were very good friends and she talks to her about 2 times a week.

He told me that my W always asks about what Im doing? I asked in what context and he says that his wife said that My wife seems curious about my life.

Just a few minutes ago she called to clarify the birthday one last time.

M: Well he wants it low key, just a few friends and pizza and wings.

W: Ok that sounds good.

M: YOu are welcome to come for some cake.

W: Oh thats good

M; YOu can even have a slice and a wing if you want.

W: Thanks

M: Okay , well see you around

( she didnt want to get off the phone)

W: So oldest is coming good, where is youngest.

m: Down at the docks again, i will swing by and see how he is.
Okay, see you.

W: And what time should I pick them up.

M: I dont know whenever you want. I wont be here.

W: Where are you going.

M: OUt. ( BTW, I m going to a crazy baseball dance, happens once a year, havent been in years but last time I was there, it was crzy full of lovely ladies)

W: Oh okay

M: Youngest was in pool all day today and then our friends came by with their youngest daughter and even our dog is digging the pool.

Iknow she would get a little jealous about the pool use. Okay, so I took a little petty shot on that insecurity of hers.

W: Dog is in the pool, you let her. What about the liner.

M: No prob, SHe jumps in , gets her toy and comes to stairs.

W: She would love that.

M: Yes she does, okay gotta go.

W: Bye

Thats it for now. She is building a deck on her property and I wonder how much that will cost her. She is pi$$ing away the money from the settlement. As I knew she would.

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