.... Have to get her to relax somehow, she's letting the stress dominate her too much. (although to her credit, she has handled this wonderfully compared to previous moves).
Two thoughts.
Since you are into yoga, any simple positions you could show her and work with her on to get her to relax?
Alternately, I found that giving foot massages to my wife did wonders for her and even tended to turn her on at times. Also sometime she will plead after a hard day of work for a back/shoulder massage. YMMV, but works for me.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
