Punkin, It's all about control and he's lost control over you. I imagine he was as mad as an old wet hen, but you know what? He'll get over it or else stroke out. You did exactly what you needed to do to move on and I'm glad to see you moved out the valuables. What an @ss! But, I'm not surprised.
Mila, I had to laugh at your h for wanting you to make him breakfast.
None of them have a clue! They don't want us, but they also don't want us to stray from the spot we were standing when they walked out the door. Life and time changes and nothing remains the same.
Ladies, please do not allow you spouses to sway you from your journey...you are doing great and that bugs the crap right out of them. Continue moving forward, the next chapter in your lives is calling you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
