Thanks for your response - I really appreciate it. I did read both of Michelle's books DB and DivRemedy. You are right I found DR more helpful.
I also posted in newcomers and included an update - thanks for the advice. Hopefully I'll get more response there.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
