Update Still packing. the stress is starting to pile up especially with all the bureaucracy involved to outprocess. This move is extra hard based on the location and the little time left to do everything. On the other hand we plan to take a 7 day vacation once we get there. That will be fun.
As for her, she has handled it well for the most part. She's managed to keep her cool, and we get through problems much more easily. She is definitely stressed but hasn't grabbed me as a punching bag. All the standing up for myself I have been doing is paying off.
I was starting to fret a little myself but I realized that an integrated man needs to be the rock for his family. I have definitely taken on that responsibility always being 2 steps ahead and having an answer for all her issues.
As for ml I tried last night, but she did the "too much going on for that" routine. I did notice that afterwards she tried to give me lots of physical contact and "playfighting". That is good.
We haven't had time to go over PM. I know she won't be receptive to it now either. Have to get her to relax somehow, she's letting the stress dominate her too much. (although to her credit, she has handled this wonderfully compared to previous moves).
