I never got into the whole bar scene when we were together. I dont mind it but never desired it. On the other hand she did, we would go out sometimes together, but she mostly liked to go out with her friends. She did make comments when we were together about going out, but it always seemed when it was time to go she did not want me to go with her, as most woman have more fun with freinds than husbands. Well I decided to get out the house this past wed night and go to a local bar with my neighbor for about an hour. She had the kids until 10 that night, so I went. I figured it would be a good opportunity to GAL. well I went stayed for about an hour and then went to pick up kids and went home. When I got there she was very nice and even for the first time told me goodnight, I replied goodnight back and closed the door. Last night I was laying in bed and the kids were in their beds when I got a text from her asking me if I had a good time in the BAR wednesday night. She had went to go eat dinner with her cousin last night and her cousin showed her the picture of me in the bar that i posted to facebook. I told her I had a good time. She told me that was great and I never went out with her. I also told her that I didnt reply to the text quickly as I was in the shower. She texted me back, that it was great how I was going out, taking a shower every night and sleeping in the bed everynight. I texted back that I went out to see what it was all about and had fun. I told her that before she left that she had some valid points on things that I needed to change and I was changing to better me for me. She advised whatever and said goodnight and I replied the same. I guess these are the little signs that the book talks about. Not taking much from it, but it must have struck a nerve. Now she knows that I can change for her or someone else. Let her start to worry a bit.
