wife left with the kids about 6 weeks ago. married for 16 yrs,had what seemed to me as a almost perfect marriage to me anyway. during this 6 weeks we have went through custody and financial fights witch has strained our relationship to no end. she was acting very cold and angry. I started using the last resort technique for the last 2 weeks and it seems to working some. she has become interested and curious of what i'm doing. she has become very friendly also. she is acting like were still together , laughing and joking about things. but she still is very firm on getting a divorce, she brings it up every conversation. she even joked about getting a new boy friend before the 4th of july. she went on about how our personalty's are too different and she needed someone who complemented her more. What do I do now? she says she wants to have a friendly relationship. she will not consider counseling ether. she is against it because when we went a few times before she left, the Councillor didn't agree with her. how do i get her to consider stopping the divorce? she is convinced that our personaltys don't match. the truth is we've always got along very well almost to perfect. it is very hard for me to keep up this friendliness when she is so firm on divorce. this is so hard on my children and myself,it just seems like she doesn't a very good reason for divorce.
