It might still be too early to tell (it's been 5-days), but I don't think, or was expecting, the letter I sent my wife made a difference. Refer to my latest post in my main thread for more fun facts.

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112