This leads me to why I am here. I have continued to read the Divorce Remedy, and certain parts have finally sunk into my thick and stubborn brain, such as.... 1. Get A Life 2. Find the positive buttons to push, quit pushing the negative buttons. 3. Be positive around her 4. Do not talk about our Relationship, her feelings, and quit pursuing her.
The problem is that I need help and encouragement from others that have experienced or are currently experiencing a similar situation. My family have not been much help. They wonder why I would want to fix my relationship with my W when 1. It is obviously dead, and 2. She does not want to be with me and is treating me poorly.
They just don't understand that she is my other half, and she makes me happy. In my religion, we believe that marriage is not just "till death do you part" but for "all eternity". My W believes this too, she just believes we need a separation for some time, even if it lasts until death, but that we will be together after.
Please share your opinions and advice, I can use it now.
Thanks
Bits M:35, W:39, M:12 S1:10, S2:8, D:5 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I am not in love with you anymore." Moved Out: 5/19/11 Divorce: 08/08/11