I sympathize...I am there too. My son Liam is 11 months, my D is 3 and we have been separated for 6 months. And-H just found a two bedroom apartment that he is moving into this weekend and he was not even going to mention it to me until after the move. I am actually filing for D next week. Do I want to? No-definitely not. But I think there is another W. I have a private detective following him this weekend because if there is another woman involved, she will most likely be helping him with the move.
I am filing because it is part of my going dark and LRT. And yes-I am ready to walk because he is making no effort. I would not say that you need to do that but you may need to shake some things up. You seem to be doing great with avoiding the R talks but you seem to be a little weary. Hang in there. I gave myself a timeline and deadline and well-H passed it this weekend. What other 180's can you do?
