Ok so I canceled my order for the book on Amazon because I found it at a Barnes & Noble nearby so I have it already and will begin reading it here shortly. Is the book helpful even when the one who has left has bi polar disorder?
My wife text me earlier saying she was hungry I just responded with well go eat then. She said she is sleeping on a mattress on the floor in her brothers basement and he is going to be charging her rent of course. She has no internet or nothing down there except for what service she gets on her phone. She is also getting a ride to work with her "arch nemesis" as she calls her. He also doesn't have any hot water so they shower over at the neighbors. To me it doesn't sound very pleasant. She was telling me all this my only response to it was well this is the life you wanted. She changed the subject at the point to saying she would be down either tomorrow or Sunday to get a few things to take over there.
Like I said it doesn't sound very pleasant to me but I wouldn't want living conditions bringing her back to me I don't think. I would want her coming back because she wants to be here. Which none of that means she will come back anyways. She said she is going to be trying to save some money to get a car and an apartment. With her credit though I don't know if she can do either one really plus she's not much of a money saver. She usually spends it as quick as she gets it if I haven't told her in advance how much to keep held back.
Wish I could find a cheaper place to live. I'm locked in a contract with my apartment until the end of December. I plan to try to sell one of the cars here pretty quick just to try to make my life a little easier.
