Put real simply, CL?

I think you work way too hard to try to MAKE your wife happy.

We cannot MAKE each other happy in life. We can only create the environment for happiness, and let our spouses be responsbility for their OWN happiness within that positive environment.

I don't think you've ever really let go of that. You are a pleaser, and a rescuer.

I know that, because I am too. blush


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)