AC, I'm sorry to read your W is being so matter-of-fact about everything. It's difficult to know how to act with that kind of cold attitude being given off.
IMO, you should accept the reality what is happening and protect yourself mentally and emotionally as much as possible. I don't think any talks with your W about her feelings, your M or any R will do any good, and probably would open up new wounds. She's moving through her plan methodically so she doesn't allow room for any distraction.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
