Honestly, yes a little tiny eentsy bit surprised based on the dynamics right now between MIL and W.

I *really* wasn't looking for a pipeline to W, I didn't think twice about it in my email to MIL. At least not consciously. I see it now.

Starsky's advice is spot on and I do (try my best to) follow it already. It's still good to see it in writing staring down at me.

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011