back again

[any chance?]

Seems like it is a done deal from this end. W is so matter-of-fact about our D. Going to tell her mother we are splitting. Doesn't care who knows. She is just planning on leaving here in January for a leave of absence after our divorce/separation are complete. Seems to be treating it as just way it is. Seems to have little remorse. Just moving on I guess.

However, we are living together, doing things together. Going to a concert for three days in July.

I don't know where to go from here. Do I just accept it and move on? Really want to get in a talk about her feeling and R, but that goes against everything on this board. If I was asked where I stood, I would have to say it is simply over. I have a hard time thinking I have a chance.