I'm discovering that the new R is harder than I think I realized it would be.
No pain – no gain eh…
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Communication is tough
Tough does not equal impossible!
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Until recently when he told me I was hard to talk to
Did this comment sting?
How do you listen?
Are you listening or just hearing?
Can you honestly say that you are not or do not formulate opinions or defenses BEFORE he starts to communicate with you?
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Or at least I thought I did
Why do you say this? Is it based on what your BF says to you?
Do you think that you have fully gotten to know this person? Do you think that maybe fear is driving some of your choices? Have you considered that maybe you may be feeling a bit “better than he is”? You have mentioned that slayed demons…does he have any that he needs to slay? If so, are you up for being there while and if he does?
One more question…….you are at this R for 3 months….what does the fact that you are having some issues say to YOU? Are you trying to understand yourself better or trying to saving the R? If it is trying to save the R?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
