Originally Posted By: mykarma
My wife did/does the same thing. Initially i felt the same as you. But now i know that she is just being very cautious by consulting her lawyer before emailing anything. I guess shes just making sure that legally she's kosher.

Could be the same here with you. Or something else. Either way, as the vets here say, don't spend too much time trying to figure them out.


My W doesn't have an attorney right now. As far as I know she doesn't even realize what is about to hit her. She is still under the impression that our agreement is gospel and the kids will be moving with her next month. I'm not offering her any info on my plans. She will find out soon enough.

You are right about not spending too much time on wondering what she is thinking. Although I am good about that for the most part, these thoughts do cross my mind from time to time. The dynamics are fascinating from a psychological standpoint.


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3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
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