My tolerance for excitment and choas is somewhere in the middle, "normal" maybe. I do a good job of keeping up and enjoy it most of the time but I'm often exhuasted and W probably feels like I am holding her back. Easy to notice that I'm rarely "in the lead". W is not such a good follower. I could lead, but W won't follow. I'm not particularly into discussing "feelings" but by comparison I'm the "needy" one. I feel the responsibility of raising our kids, keeping them relatively safe, and maintaining some routine, thus I'm the inflexible one.
Had to comment after reading this. Exactly same in our relationship. Wife always was on the move and always complained that i was 'no-fun'.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
