Ohhh, don't worry about offending me. You can't. : )
I did not mean to come across as a hard case.
Part of my post was to let you know that the 'success' stories tend not to...enjoy posting the past, warts and all, and giving you a personal reason(s) why I don't normally like doing it.
It is a good thread.
You cannot offend me Lila.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK