Originally Posted By: Starsky309
I think you've got it about right. If she's downright rude or disrespectful, just stop the conversation and say "We'll continue this when you calm down and stop being so rude. You're upset right now and I get that, but I'm not going to stand here and be treated so disrespectfully" (or something similar).

If she keeps it civil, just say things like "I understand you feel that way. Everything I'm doing, I'm trying to do what's best for the kids and myself. This is what I've decided is best right now."


Thanks for the advice Starsky. I appreciate it and will add it to my notes.

Journaling:
Since the W emailed me on Tuesday morning for the status on the agreement, I have heard very little from her since. One would think that if I am in contact with an attorney to review the agreement, she would be more anxious to get it signed. Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining that she isn't pushing for an answer. I just find it strange.

On another note, I had been relatively dim from Memorial Day to this past Monday as she was updating me on her mom's health and dealing with the passing of her cousin. I have gone dark since Monday. The only text message I sent was on Tuesday night after she left a VM. I let her know that D8 was in the shower and S5 was asleep. She apologized about calling so late and let me know why. I haven't heard anything since. She has began calling the kids during the day while I am at work.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa